Former longtime Rumsonite and Deane-Porter Elementary School teacher, Marilyn Showler Wuestefeld, passed away on Dec. 7 at Hackensack Meridian Nursing & Rehabilitation, Shrewsbury, after a long illness. She was 80.
Continue reading In Memoriam: Former Longtime Rumsonite, Deane-Porter Teacher, Marilyn Wuestefeld, 80Tag Archives: feature
Reflection: A Fall for the River Ripple Effect
Call it a fall for reflective river time. The effects are far-reaching, staying with you wherever you go, each ripple always reaching out past the reflection to bring you home.
River reflection. Ripple effect. It’s all about taking a closer look. Noticing the little things. The mirror image. The slightest crimp in the freeze frame that emanates from the wind’s whisper. It’s hushed secret-telling.
But it’s no secret. The pilings are anchored home. Each curl that you can see in the reflection’s blur will eventually reach the shore, bringing with it the focus in that reflective microcosm of change.
It’s what keeps us all studying that one mesmerizing ripple that reached us. The one that always latches onto our toes in the sand. The one that moves back out and in with the tide. The one that brings us back home and keeps us there in the ruffled clarity of what really matters. Where it all came from — the center. Home.
All it takes is one ripple to seek you out and find you, warmed by a crisp fall moment on the banks of the river in Fair Haven.
Take a look at the photo gallery above to remember what brings you back. (And click to enlarge and scroll. Enjoy!)
It’s always river time, but fall river days are dwindling. Here’s what’s in store for the next week’s fall weather from the National Weather Service …

- Scene Around: A Fair Haven Sanctuary Rededication for the Birds
- In Memoriam: Longtime Rumsonite, Dory Reagan, 95
- In Memoriam: Former Longtime Sea Bright Resident and Teacher, Rosemary Walters, 90
- Retro River Cruise into Sunny Daze
- Prosecutor: Former Cop Gets 17 Years for 2021 Vehicular Homicide, DUI
Retro Santa Trauma II
The following miserable children with Santa photo and narrative was originally posted in 2015. We just can’t resist featuring this classic again. Meet (or re-meet) the Harvey kids …
The search continues for Rumson-Fair Haven Retrospect’s miserable children with Santa photos.
Continue reading Retro Santa Trauma IIFocus: Waiting for Santa in Rumson
Santa Claus, Tim McLoone & the Shirleys, school choruses and a lot of festivity came to Victory Park at the usual spot on Sunday for the resurrection of the annual tree lighting.
R-FH Retro got a good glimpse into the pre-show fun. Take a look … (And don’t forget to click on one photo to enlarge and scroll. Enjoy!)
- Scene Around: A Fair Haven Sanctuary Rededication for the Birds
- In Memoriam: Longtime Rumsonite, Dory Reagan, 95
- In Memoriam: Former Longtime Sea Bright Resident and Teacher, Rosemary Walters, 90
- Retro River Cruise into Sunny Daze
- Prosecutor: Former Cop Gets 17 Years for 2021 Vehicular Homicide, DUI
Focus: A Festive Ugly Christmas Sweater Soiree
“Thank God it’s F … ugly Christmas sweater time!” That could have been the mantra for at least one crew of holiday revelers on Friday night at Murphy’s Tavern in Rumson.
All dressed up with somewhere to go, donning their special attire, a partying bunch burst onto an otherwise quiet scene at the old speakeasy and got busy showing and telling about their fun and ugly Christmas sweaters. Call them fugly.
There was showcasing, socializing, lots of festiveness and prizes, too. We’re not sure who won, but a glimpse into the scene at the classic side door Rumson hangout offers an idea of who may have. It’s more fun to guess than to know. This way, everyone gets a good look at all the sweaters.
So, cheers to a little ho, ho, hooooocus pocus of the magical season. Check out the all warm and fuzzy holiday fun wrapped in some festive sweaters. (And don’t forget to CLICK on ONE photo in the upper gallery to enlarge and scroll through. Enjoy!)
Who’s the winner in your starry holiday eyes?
- Scene Around: A Fair Haven Sanctuary Rededication for the Birds
- In Memoriam: Longtime Rumsonite, Dory Reagan, 95
- In Memoriam: Former Longtime Sea Bright Resident and Teacher, Rosemary Walters, 90
- Retro River Cruise into Sunny Daze
- Prosecutor: Former Cop Gets 17 Years for 2021 Vehicular Homicide, DUI
In Memoriam: Longtime Rumsonite, Janet Wood, 88
Longtime Rumsonite Janet Wood passed away peacefully in her home on Dec. 3 after a long and courageous battle with cancer. Her loving family was by her side. She was 88.
Continue reading In Memoriam: Longtime Rumsonite, Janet Wood, 88In Memoriam: Former Longtime Rumsonite Mary Ellen Wilson, 91
Former longtime Rumsonite, mom and wife of the late Rumson Presbyterian Church’s Rev. Skip Wilson, Mary Ellen Wilson, passed away peacefully Monday. She was 91.
Continue reading In Memoriam: Former Longtime Rumsonite Mary Ellen Wilson, 91Retro RFH Surf n Freeze
A reprise to take the chill out of the air with some warm friendship and fun among RFH guys back in the day …
Like the song goes, some may say the weather outside is getting downright frightful. Others, like a few RFH guys of the 1970s, may call it delightful.
Well, it’s clear that these guys in the Retro Pic of the (George)Day weren’t afraid of a little cold snap by the sea. If fact, they were all in and ready for a little surfing — or at least pretending.
Continue reading Retro RFH Surf n FreezeIn Memoriam: Longtime Rumsonite Linda Mallan, 77
Longtime Rumsonite Linda Smith Mallan passed away peacefully on Nov. 24 due to complications from Alzheimer’s Disease. She was 77.
Continue reading In Memoriam: Longtime Rumsonite Linda Mallan, 77Scene Around: After the ‘Sleepy Hollow’ Curtain Call
And that’s a masked wrap! That’s how those traditional moments went after the final curtain call of the Rumson-Fair Haven Regional High School (RFH) Tower Players’ production of The Legend of Sleepy Hollow on Sunday.
It was the troupe’s first indoor show since COVID-19. Donning transparent, and some opaque, masks, mics and a “go on with the show” attitude, the Tower Players triumphed with its fall production.
By all accounts, a great time back on the stage again was had by all. And after taking that final bow, the cast mingled with the audience and one another to pose, smile and bond some more about their show time together.
Take a look at the photo gallery above for a glimpse into that time after the curtain call. (CLICK on one photo to enlarge and scroll. Enjoy!)
Until the next final curtain call in spring …
Bravo, RFH Tower Players!
**Thanks to RFH PAS parents and students for the pics of those after-show moments!**
- Scene Around: A Fair Haven Sanctuary Rededication for the Birds
- In Memoriam: Longtime Rumsonite, Dory Reagan, 95
- In Memoriam: Former Longtime Sea Bright Resident and Teacher, Rosemary Walters, 90
- Retro River Cruise into Sunny Daze
- Prosecutor: Former Cop Gets 17 Years for 2021 Vehicular Homicide, DUI
Focus: A Fall for River Time Sunscape
When the sun sops up the fall clouds so it can peer through for a little glimpse back to summer, it’s time for river time.
Rowing, strolling, sitting … any way is the best way to move forward and go back to that warm niche that always has a place for someone in its heart. The place where, no matter what, that sun always manages to peek through and shed light on all those little big things that matter most — one ray at a time.
Any way to move back to that light on those river times is the way to go. And they went. They always do. And they hold onto it for a rainy day.
The rainy days and chill are coming back. But there’s never a damper on Fair Haven river time.
— Elaine Van Develde
Take a look (CLICK on one photo above and scroll. Enjoy!). Here’s what’s coming in those rainy, colder days ahead, according to the National Weather Service …

- Scene Around: A Fair Haven Sanctuary Rededication for the Birds
- In Memoriam: Longtime Rumsonite, Dory Reagan, 95
- In Memoriam: Former Longtime Sea Bright Resident and Teacher, Rosemary Walters, 90
- Retro River Cruise into Sunny Daze
- Prosecutor: Former Cop Gets 17 Years for 2021 Vehicular Homicide, DUI
Retro RFH Show Time: Oz Wizadry
Show time is tomorrow for the RFH Tower Players’ fall production of The Legend of Sleepy Hollow back on the stage at the high school. In honor of opening night curtain and returning to the stage, we offer a look back at a trip down the RFH Yellow Brick Road to Oz and some staged wizardry of the early 1970s at RFH.
I have a feeling we’re not in Rumson-Fair Haven Regional High School (RFH) anymore …
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