Rumson native Mary Stanley Santry, a graduate of what was then Rumson High School, more recently of Little Silver, passed away on Sept. 3. She was 95.
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9/11: Day’s End Reflection, 25 Years Later
The following piece is published annually on 9/11 as a testament to never forgetting …
It was a beautiful Tuesday. The sun was smiling with a crisp warmth. The air was a snappy fresh. The coffee even tasted especially good.
I remember. Most of us remember where we were on Sept. 11, 2001 at 8:46 a.m.. I know I do. I also remember how everything went from bright, crisp, fragrant and optimistic to dark, dank, acrid and terrifying in one second. I remember how it wasn’t about us observers, storytellers. It was about them — the victims, their loved ones, their message.
For me, a professional observer, a professional storyteller, thankfully close enough, yet far enough, yes, it was so very much about them — painfully so. I wasn’t one of them. I was lucky. I was grateful. I sought the bare honesty in the moments. I watched. They shared. I listened intently. I reported.
I was a journalist living in Fair Haven and covering Middletown for the Independent, Greater Media Newspapers. On what started out as a typical day, those victims of 9/11 and the people of Middletown manning the chaos and being the helpers ended up unwittingly, graciously, lighting a less traveled path for me. For many.
It’s this one storyteller’s perspective.
Through this one fortunate observer’s eyes and heart, it went like this …
Continue reading 9/11: Day’s End Reflection, 25 Years Later9/11: We Remember
Remembering those in Rumson, Fair Haven and neighboring communities lost to the terrorist attacks of Sept. 11, 2001 …
Continue reading 9/11: We RememberOld News: The Area Back-to-School of 60 Years Ago
Students were back to school in the Rumson-Fair Haven area this week. Those classic first day of school shots were plastered all over Facebook.
Continue reading Old News: The Area Back-to-School of 60 Years AgoProsecutor: Area Man Pleads Guilty to Aggravated Manslaughter in 2024 New Year’s Day Murder
An area man has pleaded guilty to the murder of man in the early hours of New Year’s Day in 2024.
Continue reading Prosecutor: Area Man Pleads Guilty to Aggravated Manslaughter in 2024 New Year’s Day MurderThe FYI on Fair Haven River Rats’ Junior Sweepstakes Regatta
They sailed along and triumphed. The young sailors of the 71-year-old Fair Haven River Rats turned out strong performances in The Junior Sweepstakes Regatta recently.
Continue reading The FYI on Fair Haven River Rats’ Junior Sweepstakes RegattaRetro Back-to-School Walking the Rope

Our annual back-to-school Fair Haven rope walk reprise …
“But I don’t wanna walk on the rope next to her!” I cried from under my fresh-cut kindergarten bangs. “I wanna walk on the rope next to Pam!”
Pam was my neighbor. She was my best buddy.
It was 1965. It was the ’60s. The memories are there, but fuzzy. I can sill see it — with my reading glasses, of course. One thing’s for sure: Our Fair Haven kindergarten class was the last to have its first year of school at what was called the Youth Center, now the Fair Haven Police Station and Community Center on Fisk Street.
We kindergarteners were also the last to be tugged down the street on a rope, yes a rope, headed by an official-looking police-type lady.
Continue reading Retro Back-to-School Walking the RopeIn Memoriam: Red Bank Native, Middletown-Raised RBC Grad, Laurie McGowan Robinson, 68
Red Bank native, Middletown-raised Laurie Joan McGowan Robinson passed away peacefully on Sept. 6 in Red Bank. She was 68.
Continue reading In Memoriam: Red Bank Native, Middletown-Raised RBC Grad, Laurie McGowan Robinson, 68Retro Fair Haven Back-to-School Line-Up

Photo/Sally Van Develde
A back-to-school reprise …
Knock-kneed, nervous and all dressed up with somewhere to go, this gaggle Fair Haven neighborhood girls of 1965 lined up so their moms could get that classic first-day-of-kindergarten shot. And there wasn’t a smile among them.
Continue reading Retro Fair Haven Back-to-School Line-UpIn Memoriam: Longtime Rumsonite Jim Dolan, 84
Longtime Rumsonite Jim Dolan passed away in his home on Aug. 29 after a courageous three-year battle with cancer. He was 84.
Continue reading In Memoriam: Longtime Rumsonite Jim Dolan, 84Grow with Grace: Bugged Out and Relaxing with the Fruits of Garden Labor
After all the hot summer garden work—and before fall gardening really kicks into full swing—I’m off to parts north to snip a few plant samples for propagation and sip a few cocktails for relaxation. While I’m spending time in a beautiful place by the sea, the new school year is kicking off here in the Rumson-Fair Haven area.
Continue reading Grow with Grace: Bugged Out and Relaxing with the Fruits of Garden LaborFair Remembrance: All’s Fair in the Middle
Our annual reprise about what it really means to experience all that’s fair for a Fair Haven kid …
There are a lot of significant beginnings and endings this time of the year. The end of summer. The beginning of locals’ summer. The start of school — new chapters and first days.
But, what about the middle? The end of the Fair Haven Firemen’s Fair has always brought me, and many a “fair” kid, back to that middle haven. It’s home.
Continue reading Fair Remembrance: All’s Fair in the Middle






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