In Memoriam: Lifetime Fair Havenite, Rumson High Grad, Volunteer, Jean Haviland Denise Rue, 90

Lifetime Fair Havenite, daughter and wife of two Fair Haven mayors, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother and avid volunteer, Jean Haviland Denise Rue, passed away on Sunday, April 16. She was 90.

She was preceded in death by her husband, former mayor and administrator of Fair Haven, William Conover Rue Sr., and her father, a 17-year Fair Haven mayor.

Jean Haviland Denise Rue
Photo/family via Thompson Memorial Home

“Jean grew up in Fair Haven. She was a fount of Fair Haven history. Her father served 17 years as the mayor and her husband, Bill, would later serve as mayor and borough administrator. She grew up on the banks of the Navesink River, loved the area and lived all her life there. Jean was a proud graduate of Rumson High School (before it became regionalized) and furthered her education at Centenary College, graduating in 1953. Soon afterwards, in 1954, Jean married her husband and began their family. They would go on to raise their sons in her hometown of Fair Haven.

“‘Number Three Son’ and his wife would also raise their children in Fair Haven — making it the third generation to attend Fair Haven (schools) and graduate (then regionalized) Rumson–Fair Haven Regional High School. Jean was very proud of this. Jean was also proud of her volunteerism in local endeavors, most notably as co-chairwoman of the Junior League Follies. She also served as classroom mother where she would welcome students to their home on McCarter’s Pond to enjoy an
afternoon out of the classroom.

“Jean was born at Riverview Medical Center, during the depth of The Depression in 1933, on the day of the first presidential fireside chat by FDR. She was the only child of Edgar Vanderveer Denise and Dorothy Katherine Haviland. Jean was born prematurely weighing in at only 3 lbs and 14 oz. Doctors told her father that neither she nor her mother would survive.
Both women would live into their 90s.”  

Loved ones of Jean Haviland Denise Rue in her obituary

Jean is survived by her three sons and their wives, all living locally: William C. Rue Jr. and Maria Perez, Brian D. and Kathleen C. Rue, and Jacob B. and Carolyn P. Rue.

She is also survived by her 10 grandchildren, who affectionately called her Grandma Jolly: William III, Jonathan, Christopher, Bethany, Katherine, Thomas, Jacob, Margaret, James and Michael. At the time of her passing she had five great grandchildren to carry on her legacy.

The family thanks the dedicated staff of Brandywine at the Sycamore in Shrewsbury for their many years of tending and providing comfort to Jean.

Jean loved animals and kept many pets during her life. She loved her dog, Moo Shu, who served as a loyal companion following her husband’s passing. Jean asked that donations be made to the SPCA of Eatontown in memory of the many pets she had.

Visitation will be held on Tuesday, April 18, from 5 to 7 p.m., at Thompson Memorial Home, Red Bank. Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, April 19, at 10 a.m. at the funeral home.

— Edited obituary prepared by family via Thompson Memorial Home