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Living the Dream: Jim Scanlon’s Secret Life as an Author, Songwriter


By Elaine Van Develde

His mission is one that is being undertaken all in fun — a global sort of fun — but he’s not kidding around. And he’ll tell you it’s not all about him, either.

He’s native Fair Havenite Jim Scanlon. He wrote a book that was just recently published on July 14. It’s a “social commentary wrapped in a fairy tale,” as he calls it.  He wrote music to accompany the book, aptly titled The Musical Adventure of ‘One-Shot’ Billy, for entertainment value and, more importantly, resonance, he says.

Why? “I didn’t want it to be a documentary,” the now-Little Silver resident said chatting recently in his hometown, which has a striking metaphorical role in the book. “Documentary style, more dry, is not an effective way, in my mind, to get the message out.”

The message is all about Mother Nature being pushed aside, he said. There’s Mother Nature and her three sons who manage the departments of Synchronicity, Ebb and Flow and, most importantly, Human Resources. They comprise Earth Management Systems (EMS). Get it?

The youngest son, One-Shot Billy, or Cupid, manages the humans. “It’s about who the sons are as related to her (Mother Nature) and how we found ourselves on a planet that’s sorta misaligned right now,” Scanlon said. “So, therein lies the irony of the EMS, right? The forces of nature applied their concepts and what they’re dealing with and put it right into a small town — Fair Haven. I know. I know. I was born and raised in Fair Haven. But, it’s truly a metaphor. It’s just the perfect name no matter how you look at it. I looked everywhere for a name of a town, and all I had to do was look right down at my feet. I can’t tell you how many times I tried to change the name, but it just didn’t work.”

And there are more coincidental names tied to Fair Haven in the story. Woods, dubbed Sickles, are threatened by development. But, never mind that (even though the name is fitting) Scanlon says, it’s about a much bigger picture that happens to be set in this microcosm of a small town.

The goal of the story that Scanlon says gives the forces of nature a right to express themselves: Really, in the end, the aim is to make the book’s protagonist, One-Shot Billy, or Cupid, come to life, Scanlon said. “He’s got his own life, but, at the end of the day, he learns his lesson” as the youngest of the three brothers and director of Human Resources for EMS.

And there are a lot of lessons to be learned, primarily about the givers and takers of the planet Earth, and “they’re all learned in an entertaining way with the songs,” said Scanlon, a longtime commercial real estate professional who has led a double life of status quo team corporate work by day and solitary writing and playing the guitar many a late night.

In fact, the idea for One-Shot Billy and his family grew out of a song Scanlon wrote in the wee hours of his creative solitude years back.

“A line in this song I wrote for my friend, also a musician, Ricky Eldridge, for Christmas one year drove me to the story,” he said.

It goes like this …

“Inspiration running high, a dead man rose and touched the sky. And even tho no witness spoke, the words spread of a holy ghost. Mother Nature pushed aside held the hand of Father Time. Everyone was so surprised a savior had arose.”

So, Scanlon, years later, came up with this mythical family that he wanted to introduce to everyone with music and a message on paper.

But a book? Why a book now? Why a book with downloadable songs rather than full-scale musical? Why not just music?

“Two reasons: I have a daughter; and, I wanted to put something on the planet to put perspective into things,” he said. “My daughter, Holly, is 13 years old and, at the end of the day, as she gets older it’s a matter of her understanding the concept of givers and takers. And I would like the world to be a better place for her. Why a book? Because if I dropped it on the ground, no cover, nothing, I hope someone would say, ‘Wow, you should read this!’ If all else failed, with a book, I could just drop it on the ground and walk away and hope its message spreads.

“I would also hope that people would want to help the story. It was written to do all the right things. It’s not some holier than thou piece. It’s designed to make me a better person, too. And it’s done in a fun way.”

Bottom line, too, he said, is that the music moves the story along and gives it its own life. There are 11 songs in the story.

And for the music, Scanlon went all out — and all the way to the Nashville, Tennessee. He contacted a friend from college (Rutgers) who had become an entertainment attorney.

Before long, he was in Nashville being introduced to principals at Major Bob Music, Garth Brooks’ production company, and lining up singers and studio time.

He went bach and forth to Nashville for several months and ended up with songs recorded and set for publication/online download. Lewis Lea and Shannon Labrie do most of the singing.

And, back home in status quo suburbia, life was still the same on the surface — until the book came out and so did Scanlon’s secret life.

“No one ever really knew I wrote songs and played guitar,” he said. “I never told anyone, except my brothers, who played with me, and my closest friends. But that’s what I’ve been doing all this time. I taught myself how to play guitar. I just wrote to write because I just had a passion to write.”

Now he’s taking his passion one step further. “I want this book and music to carry the message along until this guy One-Shot Billy comes to life.” The giver.

Takers anyone?

You can purchase The Musical Adventures of One-Shot Billy by clicking here.

Special Delivery for Fair Haven Fire Chief

There’s been a special delivery of an official sort of third-generation Fair Havenite — and just in time for the fair!

Fair Haven Fire Department Chief Michael Wiehl and wife Gloria announced the birth of their first child, Abigail Rose, at 8:57 p.m. on Aug. 13.

Abigail Rose Weihl Photo/Facebook screenshot
Abigail Rose Wiehl
Photo/Facebook screenshot
Abigail Rose Weihl Photo/Facebook screenshot
Abigail Rose Wiehl
Photo/Facebook screenshot

Abigail weighed in at 6-pounds, 12 ounces and “everyone is happy and healthy,” Gloria said to Facebook friends.

Grandma and Grandpa, Bonnie and Jeff Wiehl are thrilled.

Michael Wiehl is a third-generation native Fair Havenite, the grandson of Cora and Bill Kacen, longtime fire department members.

Retro Lock, Stock & Barrel Dinner & Waitresses

It’s too hot to cook, right?

Well, back in the day, decades ago, you could go on over to Lock, Stock & Barrel in Fair Haven, where Nauvoo Grill Club now sits, for a  $3.50 prime rib dinner. Yes, you read that right. See?

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Check out the ad from probably the early 1970s. While school was in, kids would walk over from what was then Willow Street School (now Viola L. Sickles) during lunch hour for a huge burger, fries, a salad and a cherry coke — all for less than $1. True hometown story. Oh, then the kids walked over to the penny candy store down the street for a few Red Hot Dollars, Swedish Fish and a candy necklace.

Many of the Lock, Stock waitresses were Fair Haven moms, some of them Fair Haven Fire Company Ladies’ Auxiliary members.

So, the Retro Pic(s) of the Day, courtesy of native Fair Havenite Evie Connor Kelly, is a look back at those ladies all dressed up and performing a Lock Stock waitressing spoof at a fire company event and a look at a menu.

Prime rib and a song and dance, anyone? Remember these ladies? They knew all the kids.

Focus: Fair Haven’s Night Out

National Night Out was Tuesday. Every year, the evening, celebrated on the first Tuesday in August in communities throughout the nation, is dedicated to raising awareness of community policing and fire and first aid emergency responders.

It is meant for people to have an opportunity to become better acquainted with the officers, fire fighters and first-aiders and their policies designed to protect and serve them. The night is all about doing so with fun, games, demonstrations, closer looks and socializing.

Here’s a glimpse into Fair Haven’s Night Out (Click on each photo to enlarge.)

— Elaine Van Develde

Iconic Spot Focus: River Rats & Doritos

While being a River Rat was a staple of summer life for many a Rumson-Fair Haven area rugrat, there were still those who didn’t sail into waterborne activity success. Some, instead, capsized inside at the thought of a wave taking the wind out of their little sails.

But, staying away from the banks of the Navesink was never even a flicker of a thought in an area youngster’s brain.

There was so much to do there — like wading, watching, feeling the sand between the toes and, well, having a heart-to-heart gabfest with a friend while fetching and freeing sand crabs and munching on a big bag of Doritos … tucked into a festive picnic basket, of course.

Yup. That’s was the summer scene for some. And it was more than enough. Sometimes, between Dorito chomping, sand, wading and chatting, the sunset would seem to creep up and those kids would realize that the River Rats had come to shore and gone home.

The walk home with that picnic basket, an empty bag and that buddy was the exhale for the night. The dream was a simple, sweet, well-lived one.

— Elaine Van Develde

The R-FH Area Weekend: Concerts & Sidewalk Sale

There’s a 60 percent chance of rain on Saturday night, according to the National Weather Service, but there’s a concert and some sale shopping planned in the Rumson-Fair Haven area.

Starting on Friday … 

It’s the 62nd year of neighboring Red Bank’s traditional sidewalk sales.

Many R-FH area people remember either catching a bus for 5 cents or walking to Red Bank, babysitting money tucked in that change pocket of the Levis, to walk around, hang with friends and buy just about any bargain more for the sake of the event than price, and head home with that sidewalk sale souvenir.

This year, the sale will again fill the streets of Red Bank on Friday, Saturday and Sunday comprising more than 60 retailers from 6 to 9 . Parking is free, if you’re driving and not hiking it or catching a bus like the kids of the old days.

For a full list of sale participants click here.

StreetLife performances will be held on Friday from 6 to 9 p.m., Saturday from noon to 3 p.m. and 6 to 9 p.m., and Sunday from noon to 3 p.m. featuring various musicians and family entertainment.

And on Saturday, if the rain doesn’t come …

Fair Haven is holding two Concerts on the Dock.

Local teen band Avery Rose & the Thorns, a funk/rock band, will play at 6 p.m. at the Fair Haven Dock at the foot of Fair Haven Road.

At 7:30 p.m., SHARKHAVEN, a classic and alternative rock band, will play. SHARKHAVEN  is comprised of musicians from The Haven, Riptide, and The Danjo’s bands.

There is no charge and light concessions will be sold.

*In the event of heavy rain, an e-blast notification will be sent out prior to the show.

Simple Summer: Fair Haven Campout

The concept doesn’t get any simpler for summer — a tent, some games, some snacks, some buddies, a movie and sleeping (sort of) under the stars far enough outside of your own back yard to call it an outing.

It’s what kids and parents gathered to do on Saturday in Fair Haven. It was the borough’s annual campout at Fair Haven Fields.

It was still steaming hot at tent pitching time — around 7 p.m..

The Fair Haven Recreation Department helpers were ready and curbside at the fields and set to inform campers about the rules and regs. And the concession stand was staffed. But, well, by 7:30 p.m., only two sets of campers had arrived.

The helpers anticipated that more would show when the movie started at 8:45 and they were ready!

This is how this simple summer night of new local tradition got started on Saturday. These guys in the featured photo were a little wilted from the humidity, but still smiling and energetic enough to kid around with each other a little. Though, one of them reflected that he thinks he always has a “reluctant gaze” when photographed. Hmmm. Can you guess which is the reluctant reflector?

If you have any photos of the campout after perhaps more campers arrived and more fun ensued or fewer campers looked “reluctant,” send them to us at [email protected] for our camp night slideshow for later. 

— Elaine Van Develde

DWI Checkpoint in Fair Haven

There will be a DWI checkpoint in Fair Haven Friday night through Saturday morning.

The check point, sponsored by the Monmouth County DWI Task Force in cooperation with the Fair Haven Police Department, will be set up in the Acme parking lot on River Road from 10 p.m. Friday through 2 a.m. Saturday.

Fair Haven police will be pulling vehicles into the parking lot from the eastbound lanes of River Road to assess drivers’ sobriety, according to task force authorities.

 

R-FH Area BOE FYI: Summer Tidbits

School may be out for summer in the Rumson-Fair Haven area, but there are some tidbits about things going on in the hallowed halls and in the office that residents may find useful.

In Fair Haven …

Superintendent Sean McNeil has been at work since July 1, the start date of his contract. He has had meet-and-greets with parents, students and staff and has met with police and borough officials.

McNeil comes to the Fair Haven School District from Middletown. Learn more about him by checking out our story about his hiring and contract signing by giving the highlighted section a click.

Click here to read his letter to Fair Haven families.

• There are office hours at Knollwood from 8 a.m. to noon Monday through Thursday throughout the summer. The office is closed on Fridays.

• Longtime Fair Haven Board of Education member and former president Claudia Brasch has stepped down.

She and her husband are retiring and moving out of the area.

Marisa Coar will be filling Brasch’s unexpired term through the end of the year.

“I welcome Marisa Coar to the Fair Haven Board of Education today,” Fair Haven Board of Education President Bruce Padula said to the Fair Haven PTA on Facebook earlier in the month.  “Claudia Brasch, thank your for your many years of service. Fair Haven is a better place because of your service to the Board.”

If Coar wants to run for a full BOE term after filling Brasch’s unexpired term, she must run for a seat in the November election.

In addition to Brasch’s term expiring in 2016, Michael Bernstein’s seat is up and so is Jeff Spector’s.

Those interested in running in November must file a nominating petition. Check out how under the Rumson School District’s tidbits (below).

In Rumson …

• The terms of three BOE members on the nine-seat board are up at the end of the year. Those members are: Elaine Melia, Diane MacGillis and Russell Binns.

So, on its website, the Rumson School District is advising all that to run for a seat, the deadline for submitting a nominating petition with the Monmouth County Clerk is Monday, July 25 at 4 p.m. The election is set for the usual general election day on Tuesday, Nov. 8.

To get a petition, email [email protected].

Check the board association website at www.njsba.org/candidacy for more information.

Summer office hours at the Rumson schools’ office are: 8:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. Monday through Thursday until Aug. 25. Then, from Aug. 29 to 31, Monday through Wednesday, for three days, the office is open again from 8:30 a.m to 2:30 p.m.

• Did you know that the Rumson PTO raised $85,891 for the 2015-16 school year? Check out this post

“The REF is immensely proud to work alongside the Rumson PTO in support of our Rumson public schools. Please join us in congratulating them in their very successful fundraising for the 2015-2016 school year!”

• And the Rumson Education Foundation donated $108,006 to the Rumson School District this year.

Click here to find out where the money went.

Have any BOE tidbits to share? Email them to us at [email protected].

Enjoy the rest of the summer!

Olympian Connor Jaeger: Present Day & Retro

You could say that former Fair Havenite Connor Jaeger is swimming in Olympic success.

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