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Living the Dream: Author Mary Beth Connor Gibson’s Homecoming

Mary Beth Connor Gibson Photo/Elaine Van Develde
Mary Beth Connor Gibson
Photo/Elaine Van Develde

By Elaine Van Develde

Author Mary Beth Connor Gibson’s story started with her mom, a walk to her hometown library, a passion for books and her own writer’s pen.

She took that walk 57 years ago, in May of 1959, to the Fair Haven library with her mom. The native Fair Havenite said she knew something special was about to happen. And it did. She, a then 6-year-old, got her first library card and the first glimmer of what turned out to be enduring, loving support from her mom to live her dream and love of books and become an author.

She is now what she dreamed of then — and has been for a while now. And, most recently, she took a long walk (OK, ride) back to her hometown on Sunday — but not to the library this time. That trek had already been taken more than half a century ago. This journey back home was one to the Fair Haven Firehouse, a Connor family home-away-from-home anchor for the siblings and longtime members, with family and friends for a book signing of her novel Aroon.

The parents Mary Ellen and Joe were there in spirit and pictures hanging on the walls.

And the journey to authorship was remembered as one taken with a mom and family ’til the end.

Mary Ellen Connor Photo/Mary Beth Connor Gibson
Mary Ellen Connor
Photo/Mary Beth Connor Gibson

Connor Gibson’s mother lived her dream with her, supporting her little girl all grown up every step of the way, on another walk to another part of the country.

But it started like this … “I knew by her (Mom’s) enthusiasm that something special was about to happen,” Gibson said. “Once we reached the library, she leaned over and said, ‘You are now old enough to have your own library card.’ I can still feel the pride in my heart as I checked out the first stack of books in my own name. My passion for books is just as strong today.”

Eventually Connor Gibson emigrated from home and ended up living in South Carolina.

“Living in South Carolina, Mom accompanied me on several research trips, like Savannah’s Ships of the Sea Maritime museum or the Redcliffe Plantation,” she said. “She passed away before I finished my book, but she was always encouraging.”

She was encouraged along the way by people other than her mom, but Mom was the mainstay.

“My second grade teacher, Mrs. Pauline Gibson, was the first to encourage my writing, allowing me to read a fairy tale I wrote for the principal, Mr. Petrisin. I think it was about a goat,” she said.

That elementary school goat rather than fairy tale manifested in a dabbling in short stories and such over the years.

But, “when approaching 40, I decided to go for it and write children’s books. Later, I expanded my subject matter to adults, giving me the freedom to explore the challenges and struggles of all classes of people. After learning of the martyrdom of an 18th century Tipperary priest, Nicholas Sheehy, I decided to focus my first novel during that time period.

“The title, Aroon, is the Anglicized version of the Gaelic, a rún, which literally means ‘my secret’ while it’s also used as a term of affection. I interpret it as “my secret love,'” Connor Gibson explained.

Aroon, already an award-winning novel, is set in 18th century Ireland, where jealousy, lust, and oppression lead to gruesome visions with only one way to stop the torture — a killing. So goes the description of the book.

It’s not a spoiler. It’s a delicate tease, as Connor Gibson sees it. She’s not giving away any of the intricate plot. You’ll have to read the devil in the details for yourself.

Here’s a bit of a tidbit more …

“Richard Lynche, anguished heir of Duncullen, clashes with his overbearing letch of a father. The lad’s only solace, the arms of homesick new maid, Eveleen, becomes his greatest agony when he finds himself terrorized by grisly apparitions. The result? One cold corpse.”

“Years of research took me places I’d never guess existed. Bringing it all together dramatically has been extremely gratifying,” said Connor Gibson. “I plan to release the sequel, Harps Upon the Willows, early in 2017.”

So, what’s a little Fair Haven girl to do with a cold corpse, some torture, solace, jealousy, lust and oppression on the mind? Mix the elements in the mind with some notes and thought after a long walk … to the library.

It may not be Oz, but there’s no place like home and the memory of a walk and a mother’s support for the writing of a book and the wrapping of it all up in a signing with lots of hugs and smiles as this author sees it.

About Aroon and Mary Beth Connor Gibson … 

Aroon has been awarded the Carrie McCray Literary Award for Novel First Chapter and was a finalist in the Pacific Northwest Writers Association Literary Contest for Historical Fiction.

Her first chapter, printed in the anthology, The Petigru Review, was nominated for a Pushcart Prize.

Gibson dedicated more than three decades to teaching adolescents in rural South Carolina everything from literature to mathematics to conflict resolution. She passionately believes in the value and dignity of every human being, which she’s carried from her classroom to the pages of her books.

Learn more on her website, mbgibsonbooks.com. Aroon is available in print and Kindle versions on amazon.com.

The R-FH Area Weekend: RFH Football with Security, Middletown Day, Oyster Fest, Book Signing

The sun is out, fall is in the air and the weather is predicted to be as pleasant as the event line-up for the Rumson-Fair Haven area weekend.

It all starts on Friday night …

with RFH’s first football game at Borden Stadium at 7 p.m..

Yes, there are new security measures in place.

Here’s the letter from school officials:

“Due to recent acts of violence in Ocean and Union counties and New York City, RFH will implement updated, best-practice security protocols recommended by the Rumson Police Department for large public gatherings, e.g. athletic events.

“The Rumson Police Department has coordinated efforts with RFH administration to ensure smooth implementation. Please be advised: NO Bags (backpacks, duffel bags, etc.) are permitted into Borden Stadium; small personal bags, e.g. purses, may be subject to search; NO Bottles and/or containers of liquid are permitted into Borden Stadium; and NO one with covered-faced costumes (i.e. masks and total body stockings) will be permitted into Borden Stadium.

“It is our intention and obligation to ensure safe events for our students and spectators. If, at any event, you notice suspicious behavior, please notify RFH personnel or law enforcement immediately.”

Saturday … all day, from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. is …

Middletown Day on the grounds of Croydon Hall on Leonardville Road in the Leonardo section of the township, right across the river.

The annual fall event features entertainment, pony rides, petting zoo, a flea market, contests, tournaments, business booths, food, goodies, arts and crafts, demonstrations and more. The event is running rain or shine.

And Sunday is the day for …

The Guiness Oyster Festival in the White Street parking lot in Red Bank.

The annual classic event, which runs from noon to 7 p.m. offers lots of food, including, of course, oysters, music and drink and raises money for area causes and more RiverCenter events.

Admission is $5 for all over the age of 10.

A hometown book signing …

Native Fair Havenite Mary Beth Connor Gibson will be back home and signing copies of her first novel, Aroon, at the Fair Haven Firehouse from 1 to 4 p.m..

The award-winning story is set in eighteenth century Ireland, where jealousy, lust, and oppression lead to gruesome visions with only one way to stop the torture—a killing.

 

Retro ‘Old’ Fair Haven Firemen

So the tradition goes … The annual NJ Firemen’s Convention in Wildwood was held at the end of last week.

And, by the looks of all the Facebook posts, a great time was had by all.

The convention has been a yearly mainstay for, well, many years. Call it an old tradition. And nothing goes with an old tradition like some good ol’ boys.

So, in keeping with the good ol’ tradition, the Retro Pic of the Day is a look back to 1967 and guys who were deemed “The Older Boys” of the Fair Haven Fire Volunteer Fire Company.

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A Fair Meet with Olympic Swimmer Connor Jaeger

Not only is Wednesday night Firemen’s Night at the Fair Haven Firemen’s Fair, it’s also Olympian night this year.

Connor Jaeger, who recently won the silver medal in the 1,500-meter freestyle swim in the Olympics in Rio de Janeiro, is back home and set to meet, greet and do some selfies with hometown friends and fans. He will be appearing at the fair, in front of the firehouse, from 7 to 9 p.m..

He said it himself on Instagram …

“This Wednesday 8/31 from 7-9pm please come and meet me at Fair Haven’s Fireman’s Fair for a selfie booth. Please come to meet me and give me an opportunity to thank you all for the unbelievable support you have shown me.”

There was talk of a parade, which is what transpired when Jaeger came in sixth in the same Olympic event in 2012. However, officials decided to wait and see what was most amenable to Jaeger.

So, selfies and socializing at the fair it is.

“We hope to see you tomorrow night,” Councilwoman Susan Sorensen said in a Facebook post after thanking officials, including Connor Jaeger’s father, Eric, a fellow councilman, for coordinating the “meet-and-greet.”

Fair Haven Firemen’s Fair’s Start

The scents, sights and sounds of the Fair Haven Firemen’s Fair are in the air.

The end-of-summer tradition in the Rumson-Fair Haven area, the largest community fair in the state, started on Friday night.

Rumson-Fair Haven Retrospect did the usual stroll of the grounds on Saturday.

Here’s a glimpse into the night …

— Elaine Van Develde

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Fair Haven Firemen’s Fair: An Opening Night Remembrance

Sometimes I can still smell the lingering scent of funnel cake in my mother’s hair. I can still see her blue-striped Fair Haven Firemen’s Fair apron draped over the kitchen chair. I can see her tying those apron strings. I can see her checking her hair and lipstick in the mirror by the door. I can hear her voice calling to me upstairs to hurry up as I tried to get my pigtails even and the puffy yarn bows tied just right. I’m always late.

And sometimes I can still see us walking down the street, her scurrying, brushing her hair to the side, still yelling back to me to hurry up.

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Simple Summer: Crabbing & Catching a Sunset

It doesn’t get much more simple in the summer than hanging a cage filled with raw chicken bait over the side of the Fair Haven Dock, netting crabs and catching a prime sunset view in the mix.

That’s what this Simple Summer photo gallery is all about.

Sometimes, too, you run into a small business owner everyone in the area knows. Anyone know who this is pictured crabbing a few days ago?

Hint: He’s known for putting people in stitches.

— Elaine Van Develde

Fair Haven Firemen’s Fair: 50 Hot Dog Salute

Chris Brenner serving hot dogs at the Fair Haven Firemen's Fair Photo/courtesy of Chris Brenner
Chris Brenner serving hot dogs at the Fair Haven Firemen’s Fair
Photo/courtesy of Chris Brenner

The following is an opinion piece, a tribute, about the Fair Haven Firemen’s Fair by Fair Haven resident, Rumson native and 1983 RFH grad Chris Brenner …

In late August of 1965, I came into the world at Riverview Hospital. We lived in Rumson; and, no doubt, on my first ride home in our blue VW Beetle, I went right by the Fair Haven firehouse, which surely was hosting the annual Fireman’s Fair at the time. I sadly didn’t make that ’65 fair. Too busy learning to breathe and see, and all of that.

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Retro Olympic Silver Medalist Connor Jaeger

After the Olympian parade for Connor Jaeger in 2012 at the Fair Haven Firehouse Photo/Elaine Van Develde
After the Olympian parade for Connor Jaeger in 2012 at the Fair Haven Firehouse
Photo/Elaine Van Develde

Yes, Fair Haven-raised Connor Jaeger did it! In his second quest for an Olympic medal, he came in second in the 1,500-meter freestyle swim in Rio de Janeiro on Saturday, making history as the fastest Team U.S.A. swimmer in the event.

It was only four years ago when Jaeger swam in London and placed sixth in the same event. When he came home to Fair Haven, there was a parade and he signed autographs for some very excited young fans.

There are no plans as of yet for a re-do of that in the borough. It depends on his wishes, officials have said.

So, the Retro Pic of the Day offers a glimpse back four years when Jaeger came home from London to a thrilled community. His family was there. Even his family dog was there.

Jaeger family dog in 2012 Photo/Elaine Van Develde
Jaeger family dog in 2012
Photo/Elaine Van Develde

Who knows the name of the Jaeger family dog?

— Elaine Van Develde

Living the Dream: Jim Scanlon’s Secret Life as an Author, Songwriter


By Elaine Van Develde

His mission is one that is being undertaken all in fun — a global sort of fun — but he’s not kidding around. And he’ll tell you it’s not all about him, either.

He’s native Fair Havenite Jim Scanlon. He wrote a book that was just recently published on July 14. It’s a “social commentary wrapped in a fairy tale,” as he calls it.  He wrote music to accompany the book, aptly titled The Musical Adventure of ‘One-Shot’ Billy, for entertainment value and, more importantly, resonance, he says.

Why? “I didn’t want it to be a documentary,” the now-Little Silver resident said chatting recently in his hometown, which has a striking metaphorical role in the book. “Documentary style, more dry, is not an effective way, in my mind, to get the message out.”

The message is all about Mother Nature being pushed aside, he said. There’s Mother Nature and her three sons who manage the departments of Synchronicity, Ebb and Flow and, most importantly, Human Resources. They comprise Earth Management Systems (EMS). Get it?

The youngest son, One-Shot Billy, or Cupid, manages the humans. “It’s about who the sons are as related to her (Mother Nature) and how we found ourselves on a planet that’s sorta misaligned right now,” Scanlon said. “So, therein lies the irony of the EMS, right? The forces of nature applied their concepts and what they’re dealing with and put it right into a small town — Fair Haven. I know. I know. I was born and raised in Fair Haven. But, it’s truly a metaphor. It’s just the perfect name no matter how you look at it. I looked everywhere for a name of a town, and all I had to do was look right down at my feet. I can’t tell you how many times I tried to change the name, but it just didn’t work.”

And there are more coincidental names tied to Fair Haven in the story. Woods, dubbed Sickles, are threatened by development. But, never mind that (even though the name is fitting) Scanlon says, it’s about a much bigger picture that happens to be set in this microcosm of a small town.

The goal of the story that Scanlon says gives the forces of nature a right to express themselves: Really, in the end, the aim is to make the book’s protagonist, One-Shot Billy, or Cupid, come to life, Scanlon said. “He’s got his own life, but, at the end of the day, he learns his lesson” as the youngest of the three brothers and director of Human Resources for EMS.

And there are a lot of lessons to be learned, primarily about the givers and takers of the planet Earth, and “they’re all learned in an entertaining way with the songs,” said Scanlon, a longtime commercial real estate professional who has led a double life of status quo team corporate work by day and solitary writing and playing the guitar many a late night.

In fact, the idea for One-Shot Billy and his family grew out of a song Scanlon wrote in the wee hours of his creative solitude years back.

“A line in this song I wrote for my friend, also a musician, Ricky Eldridge, for Christmas one year drove me to the story,” he said.

It goes like this …

“Inspiration running high, a dead man rose and touched the sky. And even tho no witness spoke, the words spread of a holy ghost. Mother Nature pushed aside held the hand of Father Time. Everyone was so surprised a savior had arose.”

So, Scanlon, years later, came up with this mythical family that he wanted to introduce to everyone with music and a message on paper.

But a book? Why a book now? Why a book with downloadable songs rather than full-scale musical? Why not just music?

“Two reasons: I have a daughter; and, I wanted to put something on the planet to put perspective into things,” he said. “My daughter, Holly, is 13 years old and, at the end of the day, as she gets older it’s a matter of her understanding the concept of givers and takers. And I would like the world to be a better place for her. Why a book? Because if I dropped it on the ground, no cover, nothing, I hope someone would say, ‘Wow, you should read this!’ If all else failed, with a book, I could just drop it on the ground and walk away and hope its message spreads.

“I would also hope that people would want to help the story. It was written to do all the right things. It’s not some holier than thou piece. It’s designed to make me a better person, too. And it’s done in a fun way.”

Bottom line, too, he said, is that the music moves the story along and gives it its own life. There are 11 songs in the story.

And for the music, Scanlon went all out — and all the way to the Nashville, Tennessee. He contacted a friend from college (Rutgers) who had become an entertainment attorney.

Before long, he was in Nashville being introduced to principals at Major Bob Music, Garth Brooks’ production company, and lining up singers and studio time.

He went bach and forth to Nashville for several months and ended up with songs recorded and set for publication/online download. Lewis Lea and Shannon Labrie do most of the singing.

And, back home in status quo suburbia, life was still the same on the surface — until the book came out and so did Scanlon’s secret life.

“No one ever really knew I wrote songs and played guitar,” he said. “I never told anyone, except my brothers, who played with me, and my closest friends. But that’s what I’ve been doing all this time. I taught myself how to play guitar. I just wrote to write because I just had a passion to write.”

Now he’s taking his passion one step further. “I want this book and music to carry the message along until this guy One-Shot Billy comes to life.” The giver.

Takers anyone?

You can purchase The Musical Adventures of One-Shot Billy by clicking here.