In Memoriam: Noted Attorney, Judge, Former Assemblyman & Little Silver Councilman, Volunteer, Hon. Chet Apy, 89

Lifetime Little Silver resident, noted attorney, judge former state assemblyman, Little Silver borough councilman and volunteer, Chester “Chet” Apy, died on May 30 surrounded by family and friends. He was 89.

Chet Apy
Photo/family via Thompson Memorial Home

Born in Long Branch in 1932 to Chester and Grace Wiseburn Apy, Chet was a lifelong resident of Little Silver until he moved to the Atrium in Red Bank in 2013, where his grandfather, his mother and his aunt had all spent their last years.

Chet attended elementary school in Little Silver, one year at Red Bank High School, then attended and graduated cum laude from The Peddie School, Hightstown, in 1949.

He took a “gap” year studying in post-war England at the Sherborne School as an exchange student of the English-Speaking Union. Following that, he studied at Princeton University, graduating cum laude in politics in 1954. He then was awarded his L.L.B. from Columbia Law School in 1957 and admitted to the U.S. Supreme Court in 1963.

After a distinguished legal career in private practice, he was appointed Judge of the Workers Compensation Court, where he served for a decade between 1994 and 2004.

During the Korean conflict, while at Princeton, Chet enlisted in the Naval Reserves serving honorably until January of 1959 as a Yeoman 3^rd class, in radar operations.

“Between his final exams at Princeton and the commencement exercises held a week later, he married Florence Pye, whom he had met in an 8^th grade dancing class. He later insisted that she had been ‘swept off her feet and after a lifetime has not yet hit the ground.’
Flo and Chet would have celebrated their 67^th wedding anniversary on June 5, 2021.
Chet and Flo were, together, committed to civil rights and racial equity. Chester was an unwavering advocate against the death penalty, serving as co-chair of the State Council to Abolish Capital Punishment.”
Loved ones of Chet Apy in his obituary

In 1962, Chet defended pro-bono a death row inmate before the U.S. Third Circuit Court of Appeals. In the legislature, he would offer several amendments as an alternative to New Jersey’s death penalty statute.

He served in elected positions as a Republican councilman on the Little Silver Borough Council and two terms in the New Jersey State Assembly. He was an advisor to Gateway National Recreation Commission and was appointed by Governor Tom Kean to the Tidelands Resource Council.

His service extended to a host of diverse non-profits. He was named a life member of the NAACP in 1991, and in 1996 was named a Distinguished Eagle Scout by the Monmouth Council of the Boy Scouts of America. He was a trustee at the Community YMCA, the chancellor of Southern District of the United Methodist Church in New Jersey, an active member of the Monmouth Conservation Foundation, and many other civic and non-profit organizations. He served as President of the Camp Bethel Association, a multi denominational christian campground on the National Register of Historic Places in Haddam, CT.

Chet is survived by: his wife, Florence Pye Apy; their three sons, David C. and Patricia McHale Apy, of Little Silver, Donald W. and Jennifer Don Apy, of Fremont, CA, and Dean W. and Susan Yount Apy, of La Crescenta, CA; ten grandchildren, Emily and husband Danny Bera, David Jr. and Daniel, Andrew, Marissa, Christopher, Alexandra, Mallory, Jackson, and Trevor; his brother, Edward (and Sharon) Apy; and beloved nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, the family invites those wishing to honor Chet to join them in contributing to: the T. Thomas Fortune Foundation; the United Methodist Church of Red Bank; The Presbyterian Church at Shrewsbury; the Community YMCA Red Bank or to the organizations and houses of worship of their choice which seek to serve the marginalized and underrepresented among us.

All services are private. A memorial service will be held in August.

— Edited obituary written and provided by family via Thompson Memorial Home