In Memoriam: Red Bank Resident Barbara Grant, 90

Red Bank resident Barbara Grant passed away peacefully at her home on Nov. 14. She was 90.

“Barbara lived a life defined by love, devotion, and an unwavering belief in the goodness of others … Known for her generosity, humility, and constant care for others, Barbara devoted herself to her family, friends, and community. She was passionate about cooking and baking, active in her church and choir, and loved to travel. She enjoyed Frank Sinatra, cats of all kinds, and cheering for the New York Yankees and New York Giants. Above all, Barbara treasured family most, raising her four sons and watching her family grow to include grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She was, and will always be remembered as, the best wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother — an extraordinary role model in every sense.”
Loved ones of Barbara Grant in her obituary

Barbara was born on June 11, 1935, in White Plains, NY.

A graduate of Syracuse University, Barbara spent the summer before her senior year working at Continental Can Company to finance a move from the family home to her on-campus sorority house.

It was there she met the love of her life, Don. They married on Nov. 17, 1957, beginning a partnership marked by deep affection, mutual respect, and a shared commitment to family. Together, they raised four sons and built a full and joyful life in Richmond, VA, Framingham, MA, Greenwich, CT, St. Louis, MO, Barrington, IL, New Canaan, CT, Little Silver, NJ, and, ultimately, Red Bank.

Barbara started her career as a social worker, and after raising children, reentered the workforce, spending 20 years in the guidance department at New Canaan High School, where her warmth, empathy, and steadfast support left a lasting impact on countless students and colleagues.

She was predeceased by: her beloved husband of 64 years, Donald R. Grant; her parents, Carroll Brown and Dorothy Blakely Brown; her sister, Dorothy Stitcher Orlopp; and her brother, Alan Brown.

Barbara leaves behind: her four sons, Randy Grant (Caroline), Rip Grant (Carol), Ross Grant (Mary), and Rusty Grant (Susan), all of whom remained close to their mother throughout her life.

She is also survived by: her brother, George Brown; nine grandchildren; six great-grandchildren; and her cherished feline companion, Rosie.

A service in celebration of Barbara’s life was held at 11 a.m. on Monday, Nov. 24, at St. George’s-by-the-River Episcopal Church, 7 Lincoln Avenue, Rumson, NJ 07760. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Lunch Break, 121 Drs. James Parker Blvd, Red Bank, NJ 07701 info@lunchbreak.org

— Edited obituary prepared by family via John E. Day Funeral Home